I felt that this was a day that was worth
documenting. To me, this was a day that
epitomizes what life in the Peace Corps is like. It was about 50 degrees and cloudy/rainy. I started the day by walking roughly four
miles to the royal kraal for a community meeting. I sat for two hours in the community center,
a building with a roof but no walls.
It’s perched on the top of one of the tallest hills in my community, the
biting wind blowing straight at us the entire time. The meeting was on a very interesting and
worthwhile topic (sex and gender-based violence in the community). However, it was all in Siswati which meant I
sat there for two hours, shivering and completely oblivious to what was being
said, except for the rare times that what of the women next to me so graciously
translated. I then walked another mile
back to the tar road to catch a taxi to town.
About half way there, my whole foot suddenly felt like it was on fire. I ripped my shoe off and found the culprit, a
bee stuck in my shoe! Bees here must be
different from bees back home… or maybe it’s just been a while since I was
stung because my fingers started tingling, my heart started pounding, and my
foot hurt so bad that I couldn’t put any weight on it. Just then, I saw a taxi approaching, flashing
its lights at me (its way of asking if I wanted a ride). I flagged it down and staggered over to it,
all the passengers inside staring at me the whole time. By the time I got in to town, the pain had
let up enough for me to walk, and I was no longer afraid that I was having some
kind of deadly allergic reaction to the bee venom. I had two hours to kill before a meeting at
the local children’s home, so I spent almost the whole time eating food. I feel like all I do here is eat. I spend almost all my money on food, and I’m
still hungry… all the time! I finish
eating, and I just want more food. I’m
really not exaggerating on this point. I
have always liked food. Even back home,
I ate. But here I eat a ton. I calculated it and, on average, I walk/jog
30 miles a week, some weeks more. It is
a constant battle trying to get enough calories into me on a Peace Corps
budget. While making my way around town,
I was proposed to five times by five different men, which is really the norm in
my town. Finally, I sought sanctuary at
the Children’s Village an hour before my meeting, cold and tired of being
harassed. My meeting was VERY
successful! Worth everything I went
through. I have about three different
projects I am going to be working on there (more on that later) and my
counterpart there is very enthusiastic and seems to be really invested in her
work. I walked out of the meeting just
in time to see my taxi back home pulling away.
I ran down the road, trying to flag it down. My driver saw me, rolled down the window and
signaled that he’d be coming back. That
meant that I had over an hour to wait…just as thunder rumbled in the distance
and the skies opened. As I made my way
through the downpour, I remembered that I had left my laptop out in my
hut…lying right under one of the spots in my roof that leaks. I just prayed that it wasn’t raining hard
back in my village yet. There really
wasn’t a point to obsessing over it. My
laptop ended up being fine, but that definitely isn’t a mistake I’ll every make
again. Luckily, there is a covered shed
at the taxi park so I at least had cover.
I hunkered down, bought another snack, and stuck in my i-pod to wait it
out. About 30 minutes into my wait, one
of the taxi drivers from a neighboring village (they all know me by now) walks
up to me with a piece of paper. I
hesitantly turn off my music and read it.
It’s a love note…I figured as much.
“Dear baby. You are
beautiful. I love you very much. Please marry me baby. I want to be your husband. I love you baby. Write me back your response.” Some days, I would be amused at this. Today, I wasn’t. I told the man no about ten times before
sticking my headphones back in and walking off.
Finally, my taxi pulls up. By
this point, there are about 30 people waiting for the one taxi back to my
village. No one wants to have to wait in
the cold rain for another hour until the next trip so a mob scene literally
ensues. People crowd the door. There is pushing and shoving. Like I said, I really wasn’t in the
mood. I just stepped back and
watched. Luckily, my driver likes me,
and technically, I had been waiting the longest of everyone. He had my back. He locked the door, cracked the window, and
told everyone to step back and let me on first.
I gave him a thankful smile, climbed on and watched as everyone
proceeded to try to pack as many people as possible into the 14 seats. We made it back to the village, and I walked
the 100 yards to my homestead in the pouring rain, only to remember that I
forgot to stop at the local store to buy airtime. It was thundering, lightening, and starting
to get dark, but I REALLY needed airtime so I sucked it up. I carefully navigated through the mud,
puddles, and pouring rain to the neighborhood store where one of the men
standing out front whispered that he loved me.
Believe it or not, I still wasn’t in the mood. I just gave him a look, pulled up my hood,
and took off for home again. I plan to
spend the rest of the night cuddled in blankets watching a movie. It was a brutal day, but at the end of it, I
have to say that I love this place more than ever. This day was what being a Peace Corps
volunteer is all about. Enduring the not
so pleasant, the endless marriage proposals, walking miles and miles through
mud and rain for that one moment when you feel like you are actually achieving
something. That something is actually
happening. That your presence here is
making some kind of positive impact, no matter how small it may seem at the
time. And I love it.